Do gossips could kill a soul ?
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oh Ghossss seems i see myself as a gossips seeker these days LoL.
But this is the fact, gossips are everywhere babe. Sometimes we never ask them but they come easily, leaving us a hurt without they know how deep it hurts us.
A gossip never need a proof actually, but it needs wisdom & an open heart. for we may learn from them.
Only there is two choices to answer those gossips :
Firstly, be wise.
Secondly, be mature.
Or it will be killing us softly.
I just have learned how to manage those gossips when it befall a friend, of course before you share or they share their issue you should assure yourself to be a trust worthy person.
Firstly, when it comes… we are shock, get hurts, worry etc.
Secondly, we are crying together till the tear finish enough lol, i mean that what a lovely friendship we make when it comes and hurt us. And you know what, gossip make us closer. (women style hehe)
Thirdly, need to check & recheck those gossips before we eat it instantly. If the gossips about our self, it easy to check and ask our soul for the truth. But if someone started a rumor about someone you close with, you may need a bit tired to prove about it. But again A gossip never need a proof actually, but it needs wisdom & an open heart. for we may learn from them.
Apart from is it true or not, in fact, a rumor push us to taste it. You have to have a dare to taste it, face it with love (i believe love is the most can solve problem in life) and of course don’t let it kill you softly just because you let your soul get a space to being weak. Trust me, after you can pass this situation you will get your life so bright, colorful, and enjoyable.
Say thank you for many things in life And don’t let your love blind your heart as well 
November 13th, 2008 at 10:28 am
hmm gossip gossip gossip, in fact gossip every where, in the real life and even in second life (internet life)…why? cos it’s so human.
but, have to take our self back again, we search the truth withing our self…is it true or not like you said miss Mar. And if it is right, we don’t have to deny it or even twist it, just think over again and fix it if possible, but if it’s not possible to be fixed, learn from it.
November 13th, 2008 at 10:47 am
wah gossip…ga pernah abis deh…
kenyang gw ama gossip yang tak sedap, ampe mual…mules…sariawan…
kalo gw dengerin semua gossip bisa matee bener dah…mending anggap intermezzo aja…
November 13th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
hehehe…ketawa aja ahhh:D
paling kurang kerjaan….. atau memang ngga ada kerjaan lain ? :))))
November 15th, 2008 at 6:08 am
Some people are unfortunate enough to spend all their time only in hurting and insulting people by gossip or internet.
First this is just sick, and although human can be disgusting after a while.
Second only thos who have nothing else to do spend all their time in this: in Indonesian mereka sepertinya tidak ada kerjaan apa2, bukan berbuat baik atau bekerja cari nafkah, bisanya cuma berbuat jahat seharian, ck ck ck ck.
November 15th, 2008 at 6:22 am
@Yanto : yes agree… learn learn learn.
@Lala : kadang susah anggap gossip itu sebuah intermezzo kalo kita yg kena pas lagi down. Tapi we are here untuk berbagi, bersama saling menghibur dan belajar bersama. That what is a friend for… not only being a blind follower LoL alias jgn ikut2an hahaha
yg waras yg ngalah…
@tamu dari jauh sekali : pertama karena keseringan terjebak ruang gossip sehingga tidak menemukan bahan lain yg positif, terbutakan oleh hasrat mencari kelemahan orang. Trus yg lainnya lagi karena perasaan kesepian and being sick
…betul sekali sir.
November 15th, 2008 at 6:29 am
@wildflores : ayo laugh together dear hehehe
November 15th, 2008 at 9:14 am
yang waras yang ngalah??? SETUJU MPOK!!!
LOVE YOU ALL GUYS!!!
MPOK, AKU KANGEN DIKAU, KEMANA SEHHHH?? :((
November 18th, 2008 at 6:47 am
I am totally agree dengan tulisanmu ini jeng..
November 18th, 2008 at 11:25 am
@ Ave : kangen kok pake diumumkan ta Ve kkkk, aku di sini… mojok :p
@ Isna : tks ya Is…
Article untuk yg bingung nanggapi gosip, gosip gak boleh bikin kita lemah dan hilang arah.
ceih ceih…
November 29th, 2008 at 9:06 pm
di tv gosip, di sini juga ngomongin gosip….
yang lain aja deh mbak Mar…:)))
Piss……
November 30th, 2008 at 10:02 am
@Sevi : LoL , aku ya heran mbak… kalo naikin article gossip cepet disamber, traffic blog jadi naik hahahaha. I hate gossip, sgn kata lain membicarakan sesuatu negatif dengan menambah cerita atau memlintir cerita, no goodlah untuk semua.
Tapi aku suka membicarakan rumor yg ada dgn diskusi u/ mengoreksi diri sendiri. Berkaca dgn gosip dan akibat2nya.