Flickr & Commenting, Gossips, Kopdar

Firstly, Flickr & Commenting in

A friend told me that she was thinking to quit from flickr.

    “it take too much of my time”
    “i hate too much comments..i like yours and few friends hehe.”
    “i want to be like those day when i only have few comment. its easy that way.”
    “..not easy to comment on every photos..but i hate to not reply back.”

For a sweet person like her, commenting in busy time is a pressure. No wonder to give a reply back to more than 100 commentator everyday is a big job, need more than 2 hours everyday to reply those comments. It is very reasonable things of why she want to quit.

“But those comment and the frequency visit made on your flickr site is a crucial factors for those photographer planned to sell their pictures. the more comment and visit the higher their possibility to sell the picture because their picture will be on top list of search. Let started taking picture for fun but ended up selling those pictures.” ~NC~

Nice Idea… yea why not ?

Most of us post a photo in flickr just because want to share, and take a big hope that they will like and enjoy those photos. Critic is needed sometimes, but too much critic make tired.

    “They requested us to post a photo and then they condemn the pictures, saying that its too much reflection, too much saturated..not good composition. They’ll try to look for any errors.” ~NC~

Secondly, Some of flickrer are planning to quit cause of gossips.
Why so many gossips around flickr ?
Is it because of flickr id is close with YM ? easy way to sign up to Flickr.com using your YM id.
Honestly, i was bit tired about gossips around Flickr. I want give a damn with those gossips.

Thirdly, Kopdar is the new trend in flickr now. It fun to meet someone we know well in flickr. Kopdar or Kopi Darat (meeting a friend) not only in Indonesia, but i heard in Malaysia and another country make Kopdar session as well.

The questions is what is the intention of Kopdar ?

A friend told me there is a Kopdar session that only showing off their expensive camera, accessories and their technical skill.

Really ? that is a bad things :(

For me, Kopdar is fun… beside of we meet someone with same hobby of photography, too many things i can learn from. How to shot, how to manage the lighting, object photo, etc. Sounds great  ?

26 Responses to “Flickr & Commenting, Gossips, Kopdar”

  1. ave Says:

    i wish no gossip in flickr, at first i open flickr account just want to learn many things about photo and photography, if possible, have a great friendship, but i never know that flickr would be a palace of gossip…
    but i get a few good things from flickr, at least i have some very good friends there…that’s the only thing that i look up to, otherwise i might be gone by now..

  2. Alexa Says:

    wow……
    This is so perfect…gossip mah buat org yang bernegative thinking aja lah….. kalau di tanggapin kitapun ikutan negative…mendingan biarkan yang bergossip di dunia negativenya aku mau positive…. belajar dan berkarya hehe

  3. mariMaaar Says:

    @Ave & @ Alexa : kalian dua ini kok focus ke gossip sih, setelah di selidiki dan dipelajari, ternyata gossip memang ada di mana-mana. Sebuah bumbu kehidupan, lah wong negara sendiri ngajarin gimana bergosip, lihat aja banyak sekali ada infotaiment di TV. :D

    Gossip memang berhujung pada pemblokiran kkkk
    yes please, block me babe…. :p

  4. ave Says:

    =)) duh babe…LOL…
    Kopdar? never think of it yet!
    flicr n commenting, for me it’s quiet good, a bit fun, lot’s of hilarious things/words to laugh about! :D

  5. Wildflores Says:

    Selamat bergossip Ria deh…. dapat gaji ngga ya?? kalau dapat mau dong ikutan wakakakak.. secara ekonomi mulai menurun bow :-)

  6. Sandra Says:

    I love Kopdar …but Only With the real photographer and the real people and real friends

  7. isna Says:

    Wualaaaaahhh…baru aja kemarin aku nanya apa kabarnya flickr..hehehhe..
    psstt..ada gossip kah??
    ber ‘flickring’ ria memang ada sisi positif & negatifnya. Bagaimana kalo positifnya aja kita ambil en negatifnya gak usah kita cetak? (loh?)

  8. Tamu dari jauh sekali Says:

    Yes, Flickr is meant as a site for photography, sharing pictures, learning from each other and enjoying each other’s pictures. Of course this way we do get to learn other people and meet new friends.

    Unfortunately there are persons however who use Flickr only as a means of gossip, bad talk and showing off. They are not really interested in photography but only in themselves and gossip.

    So:
    1. There are never too many comments, as long as they are positive and encouraging. If you don’t have time to answer, there is no obligation to do it, just a sufficient general “thank you” is OK. People make comments not to get an answer from you but to show their appreciation.

    2. Gossip should be banned from Flickr as it has nothing to do with photography. People who do it are the posion in Flickr and should actually be removed by the Flickr administration upon proof. unfortunately Flickr staff seems not to care about this, even if we make a complaint to them about certain people who do so.

    3. The so called “kopdar” seems only be another mean of meeting together to gossip and show off. If it is really a way to meet for photography, a good example is “kopdar” in Europe where people go together on photo hunting on an excursion in the nature for example. Not meeting in a fancy restaurant and only gossip and show off who is the richest or has the best equipment.

  9. mariMaaar Says:

    wah ditinggal tidur bentar aja, udah ramai komennya :D … thank you all…

    @Ave : read commenting is my fave too, especially a soothe comments, funny comments & it feels fun !

    @wildflores : wakakak, ngelamar di stasiun TV aja jadi presenter baru dapat gaji jeng… :p

    @Sandra : yes i love kopdar too with the same reasons.

    @Isna : LoooL, sampeyan ini lucu juga ya jeng. Tks ya dah mampir….setuju banget, yg negatifnya gak usah di cetak, udah iklaskan kasih tukang fotonya aja hihihihi

    @Tamu dari jauh : wow.. tks for the explanation tamuku hehe, those all totally right.. and i a agree with you. Sukses !!!

  10. ari Says:

    me with or without comments.. i can still sell my photos.. but i guess all i want is a guinuine comment and sicererity on friendships..
    with my principle of my life.. I AM WHO I AM…
    what ever gossips.. to me its a KAMPUNG STYLE..
    MY PRICIPLE… I CAN BE YOUR FRIENDS BUT IM NOT YOUR FOLLOWER.. AND PRO OR NOT PRO IN PHOTOGRAGHY .ARE THE ART OF OUR OWNSELF.. OUR EXPRESSION.. OUR OWN PRECEPTION OF PHOTOGRAHPHY… I RESPECT THOSE WITH KIND AND GUINUINE COMMENTS…

  11. arnis Says:

    untuk sementara…:D

  12. Leak Ngakak Says:

    Kalo aku bisa dikategorikan pensiun dari flickr ngga ?

    tp sebenernya ada untungnya jg nampangin portofolio kita di flickr, just share…beberapa hari lalu aku dapet email dari executive disebuah majalah anak di US, yang mau make sebuah fotoku yg bertema anak2…cuman sayang, negosiasi yg ngga cocok mengurungkan niatku untuk menjual fotoku itu..yah ada untungnya lah ber-flickr… jadi kalo aku seh mending kopdaran daripada comment2 lagi di flickr, apalagi banyak anak mami yg cengeng dan juga para penjual “mimpi” dan janji bertebaran diflickr huahahahahahhaha tebak sapa tuh???

  13. mariMaaar Says:

    @Leak ngakak : wakakaka, miss you in Flickr bro’ hihihi… jgn pensiun nae, tetep upload foto walaupun sempat tak sempat komen. Jangan matikan peluangmu untuk meraih $$$$$.
    You are one of photographer with a big talent that i ever know…

    btw.. congrats ya atas tawaran itu. Lain kali pasti dapat yg sesuai.

  14. mariMaaar Says:

    @ Ari : wow.. i love your comment Ari… the real hero LoL
    really.. love your comment… especially this sentence : I CAN BE YOUR FRIENDS BUT IM NOT YOUR FOLLOWER

    and i dont want someone being my follower too, just because i like or don’t like somebody
    tks ya Ari…

    @Arnis : sementara daku sabar menanti komen selanjutnya hihihihi

  15. Tamu dari jauh sekali Says:

    @Leak ngakak: Miss you in Flickr bro. Ayo, kembali lah, biar aja yang anak mami itu , orang pengecut yang cuma bisa berlindung dibelakang……….wakakakakakak.

    Your pics. seperti kata Mar are too beautiful not to share with us.

  16. aku/gw/me/myself Says:

    wahhhh seru nih….
    daku hanya mencari ilmu photography dan ilmu persahabatan aja ya…yang lain kalo mau gossip…monggo, silaken, semoga bisa makmur dari gossip!!!! makan tuh gossip!

  17. mariMaaar Says:

    @Tamu dari Jauh : :D

    @aku/gw/me/myself : duh kata subject kok diborong sendiri ta ya, nanti yg lain gak kebagian kalo mo bikin nama samaran. Piye ta kkkkk….

    Aku lebih suka discuss dan berkaca dengan masalah yg ada, ketimbang menciptakan cerita baru yg gak bener. Tks ya.

  18. Lolak Says:

    flickr bisa dimanfaatin untuk nyimpen foto bila space hostingnya terbatas lho.

  19. mariMaaar Says:

    @Lolak : hehehe makasiii udah mau mampir ya…
    ya saya pakai flickr juga untuk arsip foto. Banyak foto yg saya upload dan set private.

  20. Wildflores Says:

    wah panjang banged ini comment :-)))

  21. Wildflores Says:

    @leak Ngakak… kok aku belum di add lagi di Twitter sih….. aku ganti account nok:-) wah gawat ……

  22. Tamu dari jauh sekali Says:

    @ave: Fortunately 95% of Flickr members are nice and with good intentions and join Flickr for the purpose it was made of: photography and sharing fun with pictures. Please do not let the 5% which poison Flickr discourage you to continue it, although I myself for that reason had thoughts myself to stop Flickr, but that is only surrending to those unworthy ones.

  23. ave Says:

    :D thank you so much TAMU DARI JAUH SEKALI…
    hope i could be like what you say!! SEMANGAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  24. mariMaaar Says:

    Thank you all for your responding for this article. Your comments are really appreciate.

    “I posted the article above it doesn’t mean that i would like to judge somebody for any gossips and unwell comments, otherwise the article above is like a summary for my experience during use flickr so far. There are so many positive things i have been got from flickr than the negative things. The negative things are easy to remove, and welcome for any positive supporting”

    Lets keep posting the photo and share your life & positive though through Flickr…:-)

  25. sevi Says:

    iseng2 ngeliat blogmu, wah seru juga nih…
    Saya malah gak tahu kalau banyak cerita di flickr. Setahuku sih, kita cuma sharing foto dan belajar foto2 dari fotografer yang udah pro etc etc…gitu….
    Ternyata oh ternyata…(lugu mode ON)

  26. mariMaaar Says:

    @Sevi : makasih mbak dah iseng banget :p

    Banyak yg tadinya mengira begitu, tapi kalo gak diselingi gossip ya kok kurang hidup juga ya Flickr wakakak. Aku jadi kaya di flickr krn bisa belajar banyak hal, tentang hidup iya, tentang persoalan iya, tentang photography iya, tentang bgmn menghargai persahabatan juga iya.

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